Women, You Have A Choice

Whether you choose to be happy or not, you have a choice. If you think you are already happy, then why are most people around you sad? Do you want to make them happy too? Do you also want to tell them that they have a choice? Everything about the relationship with people is about choices.

However, sometimes when you are spoilt for choices, just follow your heart. Do what it tells you to do. Most doors are open, but do you want to step inside?

We are mostly guided by logic, given the years of education that we have. Most of the time we would be “logically speaking”, making the “correct” choice. But if we have always been “logically” making the correct choices, then why aren’t we as successful in our relationships, careers as we “logically” are supposed to be?

Choice is the most powerful tool we have in the mind. It is in our power to choose the world we see, the relationships we have and the success we experience. Our thoughts, beliefs, feelings and behaviour are also a result of the choices we make. Bringing this to awareness allows us to continue to make better choices, so that, even consciously, our power to choose our attitude toward whatever is happening to us can change tragedy into acts of heroism, or devastation into enlightenment.

A perfect partner is only perfect when you are perfectly “whole” yourself. Don’t go around expecting to find a perfect person for yourself when you desperately want him to fulfill your needs. Choose to accept him and love him for what he is. I’m sure we all can choose to lead a happier life, a better career and a perfect partner. You can ultimately reach the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow!